, Julia Doss2, Sigita Plioplys3 and Jana E. Jones4
(1)
Department of Psychiatry, UCLA, Los Angeles, CA, USA
(2)
Department of Psychology, Minnesota Epilepsy Group, St. Paul, MN, USA
(3)
Department of Psychiatry, Northwestern University, Chicago, IL, USA
(4)
Department of Neurology, University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health, Madison, WI, USA
Keywords
Adaptive problem solvingCopingChild therapy goalThe Challenge of Problem-Solving
Figure 9.1 summarizes techniques you can use to help the child begin to problem-solve adaptively rather than maladaptively by avoidance. Similar to your work on the child’s other long-term goals, gradually work on problem-solving strategies with the child. Be sensitive to nonverbal and verbal cues of resistance. If you meet with resistance, proceed cautiously. Also, see Chap. 15 for CBT approaches to problem-solving for anxiety disorders and depression associated with PNES and Appendix L for exercises the child can do to practice problem-solving techniques.




Fig. 9.1
Techniques to help the child problem-solve
Techniques That Encourage Problem-Solving
What to Do with Repeated “Nothing Works” Child Responses?
Empathize with the child stating, “Sounds like that is really difficult.” If the child expressed negative emotions, provide positive feedback even if the child is not open to any problem-solving suggestions. Role-play is a helpful technique. The child can act as the source of the problem and you be the child. Express the negative emotion the stressor causes you in your role as the child. Try to verbalize what makes it difficult for you (i.e., the child) to problem-solve. Then come up with a game plan that works.
Resistance
If the child is quite resistant to your problem-solving suggestions related to a stressful event the child describes, stop talking about it. At the next session, tell the child that you have been thinking about possible ways to fix the situation and would like to hear what the child thinks about them. Informing the child that you were thinking about the child’s issues since the last session means that you care and really want to help the child. This can strengthen the therapeutic relationship even if the child continues to resist your problem-solving suggestions.
Can Parents, Friends, Teacher, You, or Others Help?
Make sure the child feels comfortable asking for help from others before suggesting it. Normalize asking for help. The child might feel more comfortable if you, not others, help problem-solve. Offer your help to the child only once it is clear to you that the child is fearful of asking for help or sharing his/her difficulty with parents, teacher, or friends. If parents are part of the problem, see Parent Long-term Goal 5 in Chap. 14 on how to address the issues between the child and parents.
Dialogue: Problem-Solving Approaches
This eleven-year-old boy with epilepsy was referred to rule out the role of psychological factors for his “breakthrough seizures” that began shortly after the beginning of the school year. The father accompanied the boy, but knew little about his medical, neurological, and emotional history. He claimed that other than seizures and some mild learning problems, maybe ADHD, the child had no emotional or behavioral problems. A vEEG and psychiatric evaluation confirmed a diagnosis of PNES. The frequency of the boy’s episodes decreased markedly during the first few weeks of therapy in parallel with the parents’ acknowledgment of his testing results that confirmed a wide range of learning problems and with additional accommodations put in place at his special education school. The dialogue below occurred during the third month of therapy. As for previous dialogues, the blue bubbles present comments on the therapist’s approach and the yellow bubbles on the child’s responses.

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